Upcoming Events
The Madame Loves to Host
Check out our calendar for the exciting events that are happening all month long. Looking to plan your own event at Madame X?
Reach out to our General Manager, Alex, at (757) 645 -6979
Sex Esteem® In The City: How To Bring Authenticity Back Into Dating and Sex
Join top experts Sari Cooper and Julia Bekker for a FREE talk on authenticity, desire, and connection in the modern dating world.
Sexy Vixens Halloween Happy Hour
Welcome to the Sexy Vixens Halloween Happy Hour - Ladies Only event!
Come join us at Madame X for a spooktacular night of fun and cocktails. Get ready to mingle with other fabulous ladies in a festive and sultry atmosphere. Dress to impress in your sexiest Halloween outfit (or not!) and enjoy a night of laughter, dancing, and maybe even a little mischief. This is the perfect opportunity to let loose and have a blast with your girlfriends.
Step inside an evening designed to delight every sense:
✨ Sultry Beats & Seasonal Spirits – Curated cocktails, darkly decadent bites, and a playlist that begs you to move your body.
✨ Seductive Atmosphere – Red, velvet, dark with just the right touch of mystery.
Don't miss out on this event!
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
Wicked Karaoke Night
After selling out two wild, magical nights in Toronto, we knew we had to bring the BELT energy to NYC - and we are SO EXCITED to announce our very first Wicked Karaoke Night in New York City is officially happening!!!
This night is for your inner theatre kid - the one who spent hours scream-singing show tunes into a hairbrush and dreaming of a place where everyone gets it. Now’s your chance to belt your heart out with a room full of fellow Wicked lovers.
Here’s what to expect:
🎤 We’ll be singing the entire score of Wicked - Act One and Act Two
🌟 You can sign up to sing your favorite song - solo, with a friend, or with a group but expect the full room to belt along with you
🍸 Full bar sing-along energy
💃 Costumes encouraged (no pressure - come as Elphaba, Glinda, or yourself!)
💖 A fun, welcoming, no-pressure vibe - this is all about community, connection, and cathartic belting!!
✨ And after we make it through Wicked? We’re opening it up to general musical theatre karaoke and turning the night into a full-on musical theatre dance party.
Come with friends, come solo, come to heal your inner theatre kid - this is your night.
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
Emo Horror Draglesque
Emo? Horror? Sexy?
WE GOT IT ALL!
They Themed Productions & FemMenThem Queer Cabaret presents Emo Horror Draglesque Show
🎃 October 16
⌚ Doors at 6pm, Show at 7pm
🎟️ Online $15, Doors $20
💰 50% will go to Trans Lifeline
Lots of MCR. All the classics. And time to be scary! A live tattooing act? An all trans cast! You'll have to come find out!
Starring
@robertpinndrag
@nicolaslorenj
@crystal.tyler.nyc
@incubusteeth
@felix__elixir
@g1ngerail
@klondyke_drag
Hosted by
@janey.biss
Assisted by
@acourtneysaywha
@doctorannehedonia
Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.
Catacomb Cabaret
Catacomb Cabaret
a Halloween burlesque cabaret & hygiene drive
Hosted by Lita Means Money in collaboration with Madame X and New Alternatives NYC
Featuring Queen of Chaos and Punk Princess: The Sylvana Effect & Faxtra Larq
With mesmerizing special guest: SYNEAD
Hygiene drive to benefit New Alternatives NYC - providing support for LGBTQ youth experiencing houselessness
Items needed (new and unopened!):
body soap
deodorant
razors & shaving cream
lotion & lip balm
cleansing wipes
pads, tampons, & liners
Raffle tickets & free shots for items donated!*
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
Girl Party x Summer Nights
Dancing so hot, we'll have you screaming, "GOOD FOR HER!!!"
Girl Party by Miss Tai Hart & Summer Nights by Summer Reign 👑 cvm together for a joint slay...literally, it might k!ll you. There's nothing more thrilling than being sexy.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
UPTOWN NIKKO
Spinning from 9:00 until 3:00am
‘UPTOWNNIKKO’ is a seasoned working disc jockey born and raised in The Bronx, New York. With over 18 years of experience participating in New York City's nightlife scene, he has held residencies for Paradise Club, Sway Lounge (305 Spring), Parlor Social Club, DUMBO House, and more.
A plunder-phonic fool known to get busy behind DJ gear? Yes.
Will he summon you over to discuss how much he loves the song he’s mixing, providing a factoid about it you didn’t know or even ask for? Also, yes.
Les Saphiques
Les Saphiques
Christen yourself in a night of allure at The Lavender NYC with festivities that pay homage to our queer kindred.
Indulge in the allure of love at the most enchanting event of the season, Les Saphiques by The Lavender NYC. Join us on October 4, 2025 at the exquisite Madame X for a celebration that transcends boundaries and embraces the boundless beauty of queer sapphic connections.
From the moment you step through the doors, immerse yourself in an evening curated for passion, elegance, and the unapologetic celebration of queer sapphic love.
Settle into a cozy booth with a decadent aperitif and experience mesmerizing performances that transcend boundaries. Join our DJ for a seductive dance soirée!
Dance under the stars to the rhythm of acceptance, savor artisanal cocktails and revel in the company of like-minded souls. A night where every glance, every touch, and every beat of the music tells a story of unity and pride. Secure your place in this mesmerizing tapestry of sapphic magic—where love knows no bounds, and the night is yours to enchant. 🌙💖 #TheLavenderNYC
Soirée Emcees: Emily & Anna
Featuring Burlesque by : Ms Margaret Jean & Mercy Masala
Poetry: Featuring Writers B Luther & Cassaundra Marie
Tarot Erotique: Bad Mary Tarot & Tarot by Rachel
Enchanting beats: DJ Cilla
Event Producers: Allie Lane, Wendy Liu, Izabela Suton & Cassaundra Marie
Dress to impress, best fits of the night will be awarded! Yes there will be prizes!
DJ L Trendz
In the booth from 9:00 ‘til 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip-hop, soul, r&b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
UPTOWN NIKKO
Spinning from 9:00 until 3:00am
‘UPTOWNNIKKO’ is a seasoned working disc jockey born and raised in The Bronx, New York. With over 18 years of experience participating in New York City's nightlife scene, he has held residencies for Paradise Club, Sway Lounge (305 Spring), Parlor Social Club, DUMBO House, and more.
A plunder-phonic fool known to get busy behind DJ gear? Yes.
Will he summon you over to discuss how much he loves the song he’s mixing, providing a factoid about it you didn’t know or even ask for? Also, yes.
DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.
Workshop: Rethinking Breakups
Rethinking Break-ups: A Guide to Decoupling & De-escalation
Major shifts in our relationships are inevitable, but we are conditioned to avoid them, ESPECIALLY any form of de-escalating or decoupling. We rarely, if at all, see representations of romantic partners amicably decoupling or de-escalating their relationship. Most representations of breakups or pauses depict a couple in conflict, distressed, and heartbroken. The fear of losing an attachment bond can be challenging to navigate, but it doesn’t mean you or the relationship failed.
The social pressures of remaining in relationship dynamics that no longer serve us bar us from realizing our authentic needs and desires.
Rethinking Break-ups: A Guide to Decoupling & De-escalation provides a roadmap for navigating major relationship shifts with compassion, grace, and self-assurance.
Key takeaways:
Deconstructing mainstream representations of "break-ups" and how to step off the “relationship escalator”
Understanding emotional thresholds, boundaries, and personal limits
Initiating and warmly welcoming shifts in romantic relationships
Outlining a "de-escalation" process + tools to move through it
New perspectives on "decoupling" + templates, ceremonies, and rituals on how to have a conscious, proactive, and loving decoupling
Presenter Bio:
Bear (he/him) & Fifi (they/ella) are certified Tantric practitioners, educators, and event producers. They share practices and perspectives for deeper, more fulfilling intimate relationships, and curate consensual spaces for people to engage mindfully with embodied play. Their mission is to eradicate oppressive social binaries, address the personal barriers that limit human connection, and offer ways of relating that center collective care. Bear & Fifi are a queer/trans polyamorous couple, born, raised, and based in New York City. Follow them on instagram at @BEARXFIFI.
Join us at Madame X at 6pm for pre-workshop drinks.
7PM Workshop.
8:30pm Mixer
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
DJ L Trendz
In the booth from 9:00 ‘til 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip-hop, soul, r&b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.
Rocky Horror Picture Show
Start your halloween season off RIGHT with drinkin, drag, burlesque, and puttin ur money where ur damn mouth is!
🗓️ September 18th,
⏰ 8:30 doors, 9p show
$15 adv tix
$20 at the door !
NOTAFLOF
all ticket sales go directly to our queer comrades in palestine!
bring ur party hats and garters and RSVP
RSVP IS NOT VALID WITHOUT CASHAPP PAYMENT OF $15 TO $marikubani SEAT WILL ONLY BE HELD WITH PAYMENT- PUT TIME SLIP IN CAPTION
Sex Worker Pride by Red Light Disco
Hands that know survival.
Bodies that won’t be erased.
September 14th is Sex Worker Pride.
More than a party. A sanctuary. A rebellion. A ritual.
We will gather, we will sing, we will dance, we will honor.
Come gather from 6:00-2:00am for workshops, performances, dancing, vendors, and more.
Open Community Class: Burlesque and Go-go
Train. Tease. Transform.
Where technique meets stage presence. ALL LEVELS GoGo Technique & Burlesque Dance Class Join us for a sexy evening of burlesque and GoGo education at the iconic queer den Madame X in New York City—every Sunday from 6–8 PM! This is your sign to let loose, explore embodiment, and embrace your confidence. Whether you’re a total beginner or a seasoned pro, this open-level class is crafted for all levels of experience.
Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.
FRESH Fridays
Bring the bills and come make it rain, baby.
New dancers grace the Madame X dance floor every Friday. Come for the sexy, stay for the vibes.