Upcoming Events
The Madame Loves to Host
Check out our calendar for the exciting events that are happening all month long. Looking to plan your own event at Madame X? Reach out to our General Manager, Alex, at (757) 64 5 - 6979

DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.

Bloodlust // Eternal
✤ Blood 4 Blood ✤ Sanguine Realness ✤ Carnal and Unhinged ✤ Dripping with Desire ✤ Primal Passion ✤
😈 Happy Pride, Blood Suckers! We're summoning you. 😈
Join us for a night of devotion, music, dance, and ritual.
A Vampire Affair - in Two Parts
Part 1: An opening reception with an immersive performance inspired by the Aswang, designed to move throughout the space and bring the audience into our world
Part 2: A Vampire Ball—a dance party set to vampire-coded alt/nu/trap metal music (mostly) by artists of color, featuring more performances including live kink, gogo, and burlesque
Song Requests? Add to our playlist! 🤘🏽
This event, we are fundraising to help KAŌS become a non-profit organization, so we can keep bringing you arts, education, and experiences.
Though this is a Pride/BIPOC Forward Event, all are welcome. By purchasing a ticket, you agree to follow KAŌS House Rules. The venue is not wheelchair accessible. If there are other accesssibility needs you need met, let us know and we'll do what we can!
All tickets grant access to our private event floor, as well as the primary floor and outdoor space. VIP Packages are available with special perks! The upstairs will close at 2 AM, but the downstairs will remain open until 3.
🥀 Message KAŌS for a discount code if you need one 🥀

Art Opening: Creating Community Exhibition
Join us for the opening of our Pride exhibit in collaboration with Folsom Street East and New England Leather. No tickets needed. All are welcome.

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.

DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

DJ LIVENDIRECT
In the booth from 9:00pm until 3:00am
Come witness the untouchable DJ duo LIVENDIRECT spin the night away in our DJ booth. DJ @keithturnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr is known for his deep cuts, super groovy vibes, and impeccable presence in the DJ booth— you don’t want to miss this unparalleled energy on a Saturday night.

DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.

SHE UP NEXT
She Up Next
A Showcase of the best female underground artists from Jersey and NYC.

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.

Live Jazz & Non-Indifferent Creatives
Live Jazz & Non-indifferent Creatives
This event is for creatives of all paths—artists who are not indifferent to the current state of Life On Earth. Join us for an afternoon of live jazz and intentional connections.
This event is designed for writers, photographers, filmmakers, painters, designers, and creative thinkers—artists who value humanity, equality, and the freedom of the oppressed over monetary profit.
Event Flow:
Live Jazz Band.
A Room Full Of Creatives With The Intent To Improve Life On Earth.
Full Bar Service.
Event Date: Saturday, July 19th
Event Time: 3 PM – 6 PM
The bar will remain open until 3 AM, so you’re welcome to stay and continue the night.
Jazz & Connect is a New York City–based event series curating intentional spaces for genuine connection—powered by Live Dove Media, with over 5 years of experience producing events across the United States.

Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.

Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.

Cumbia Kickoff
Come for the music, stay for the agave.
Join us for impeccable Cumbia sounds DJ’d by Chichadelico, a full menu of specialty cocktails courtesy of Don Fulano, Altos, and Ojo de Tigre and other surprises.

Queer Pleasure During Unpleasant Times: A Panel Discussion
Queer Pleasure During Unpleasant Times: A Panel Discussion
Join us at Madame X for a conversation around queer pleasure as a form of healing, resistance, and self-preservation. We will discuss how pleasure (of any kind) is an act of autonomy and connection in the face of systems that seek to diminish. We aim to have a discussion around this question: In particularly bleak times, how do we hold onto what brings us pleasure, and why does it matter that we do?
We’ll explore how our panelists cultivate pleasure in their everyday life, and communities and how creating fulfillment doesn’t always have to be profound or complicated, as it may seem.
Panelists:
Sara Elise (she/her) is a Black, queer, neurodivergent author and community cultivator focused on pleasure, healing, and decolonized well-being. Her work explores the intersections of joy, embodiment, and personal growth. Find her on Instagram @saraelise333
Sara Youngblood Gregory (she/they) is an award-winning lesbian journalist and author who writes about power, identity, and culture. Their work has appeared in major outlets like The New York Times and The Guardian, and their poetry collection DEAD BOYS IN SPACE won the 2023 Pamet River Prize. Find her on Instagram @sinister.spinster
Keanu M. Jackson, LCSW (he/him) is a therapist and educator focused on the emotional well-being of queer and trans people of color. He centers decolonizing mental health, intimacy, and building lives rooted in care, agency, and connection.
Yohon Tatum (he/him) is the Community Engagement Coordinator at The LGBT Center in NYC, where he has spent the past five years creating affirming, resource-rich spaces for LGBTQ+ communities. With over two decades of experience in community advocacy, Yohon is a driving force behind initiatives like Visions of Pride at the High Line and the Annual World of Red Ball—a World AIDS Day event honoring and uplifting the Ballroom community. A proud icon in the Ballroom scene and the NYC Father of the Impeccable Haus of Ticsi, Yohon also leads critical sexual health efforts supporting BIPOC and TGNC individuals in accessing PrEP, PEP, and care. His work is rooted in lived experience, relatability, and the belief that queer pleasure is not only joy—but also healing, resistance, and survival.
Tier One Ticket: FREE entrance into the event.
Tier Two Ticket: FREE entrance into event + SIGNED copy of panelist Sara Elise's book, A Recipe For Change = $19
This is a FREE ticketed event. Please sign up to attend, as there is a maximum capacity the venue can hold.

DJ L Trendz
In the booth from 9:00 ‘til 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

DJ L Trendz
In the booth from 9:00 ‘til 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.

Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.

Electric Moon: Intimacy
Electric Moon: Intimacy
While the city rushes, the moon takes her time.
At Electric Moon: Intimacy, you're not just an observer — you become part of our story. You don’t just come here to be entertained; you come here to feel.
Every guest is woven into the experience, because who doesn’t crave cabaret as foreplay? Here, nothing is off-limits. Expect burlesque that bares more than skin, vocalists who sing straight to your soul, and a celebration of desire that takes center stage — for everyone.
Come experience a slow undressing of your senses led by our amazing cast. Bring your cash tips, an open mind and get ready for a wildly intimate night.
Cast:
Vixens
Amber Lyoness
Haze L Nutt
Nirah
Stella Sundari
Soloists:
Chartruice
Jantina
Messica Rabbit
Host: CKAY
Tickets $25 advanced, $30 at the door

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.


The Pleasure Lab
The Pleasure Lab
Get ready to Ignite Your Desires at The Pleasure Lab!
Join us on May 17th for an unforgettable afternoon of exploration, empowerment, and pleasure at The Pleasure Lab: Where Women Explore and Elevate Desire. Whether you're a beginner or seasoned pro, this event is designed to help you unlock new levels of intimacy, communication, and pleasure.
This event is NOT strictly for folks that identify as women. Open to trans & GNC bbys too 💋
Event Breakdown:
2:00 PM - 3:00 PM: Mingle & Games Kick off the day with some fun and exciting games while mingling with like-minded women. It’s the perfect opportunity to meet new friends and start your journey of exploration!
3:00 PM - 6:00 PM: Workshops & Games Join renowned sex educator Steph Zapata and Dakota Ramppen as they lead you through workshops designed to break down barriers and help you confidently explore and express your desires. You'll learn techniques to elevate your bedroom communication and bring your fantasies to life. Plus, enjoy interactive games that will keep the energy fun and lively!
6:00 PM - 7:00 PM: Mix & Mingle Wind down the evening with some more mingling, shopping, and connecting with other attendees. Enjoy the chance to share your experience and continue exploring your desires.
What’s Waiting for You:
Dirty Talk Workshop with Steph: Unleash your inner vixen and explore new ways to communicate your desires.
Exciting Games: Fun activities that keep the vibe light and playful.
Giveaways from Our Sponsors: Score amazing products from brands like Arya, Starlight, and Bloomi!
Spicy Vendors: Browse an array of adult toys, massage candles, lubricants, and more to enhance your pleasure experience.
Curated Cocktail Menu: An array of themed cocktails to kick your Saturday night off!
This event is all about exploring and expressing your desires in a safe, supportive space. Whether you're looking to spice things up in the bedroom or simply want to connect with other women on their pleasure journeys, The Pleasure Lab is for you.
We want you to have an amazing time at The Pleasure Lab, and that includes drinking responsibly! 🍷✨ While we won’t be providing food, you’re more than welcome to bring your own or order in so you can stay energized and enjoy the experience to the fullest. Pace yourself, stay hydrated, and most importantly—have fun safely! 💋
Don't Miss Out!
Tickets are limited for this exclusive event. Secure yours now and get ready to elevate your pleasure game!

DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.

Dungeon X: A Dark & Delicious Immersive Experiene
Dungeon X, a place few have seen and fewer leave unchanged, where punishment and pleasure are twin gods. You’re not sure if you’re here to be interrogated, seduced, punished… or worshiped. The guards behind you close the door with a sound that feels final... and the chains in the corners start to stir.
Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
Different flavours of temptation: a blood-red lounge where you'll be immersed in live music and unique performances where lost souls, prisoners and dungeon masters put on artful acts of control and surrender, creatures in every corner… and much more. You know how to get in… but will you be able to escape?
Enter Dungeon X, if you dare… and enjoy the most intense, sensual, dark but beautiful immersive experience, a show that you’ll never forget…
Someone—or something—sits there, watching… Waiting…


DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

The Afrodeep Mini Purpose Gala with DJ Stiletto
Mari Malek aka DJ Stilleto’s Afrodeep Mini Purpose Gala
Celebrating AfroCentric Music, Fashion Art, Culture, and Lifestyle. As well as , Honoring the Founder of "Stand For Education" Mari Malek for her Birthday. We look forward to having Conversations about making a Difference in our Community while enjoying High Vibrational Music

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

Sattama Reggae Sundays
Wind it out with DJ Junior Keys and Lady Tia for our famous Sattama Reggae Sundays.

Dancer's Paradise
Welcome to Dancer’s Paradise!
Come join Lady Diamond and The Twins for a night filled with Dancehall Reggae Music, Amazing Dancers, Great Vibes, Magnum Tonic Wine and 4-20 Drink Specials! Whether you're a seasoned dancer or just looking to hold a vibe in our Friendly Backyard... This is the place to be!
Our talented DJs will be playing Dancehall Reggae, from Back to Basics, to the newest tracks of 2025. Not to mention Live Performances from the Hottest up and coming Artists! So grab your friends and get ready for back to back hits!!
Come join us and dance the night away in a vibrant and energetic setting, as well as relax in the backyard with outdoor seating. We're bringing Brooklyn Vibes to Downtown Manhattan once again! VTBA.. It's going to be a night to remember !!!
Early bird tix available for a limited time only.

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

DJ L Trendz
On the decks until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

Play Party 101
Curious about navigating play party spaces?
Unsure of what to wear or how to engage with others? If so, this workshop is for you.
Presented by Hit me Up organizer, Tide, we'll break down the basics of sex parties, sharing real-life examples and stories to help you feel more confident and prepared. This is a great opportunity to get your questions answered in a welcoming environment. After the workshop, join us for a panel discussion featuring a diverse group of individuals involved in or attending various play spaces in New York City, including those that are LGBTQ+ and BIPOC inclusive.
Plan to meet at Madame X at 6pm for pre-workshop drinks. Workshop runs from 6:30-8:30. Drinks and socializing at the bar afterwards.
About the presenter: Tide is the venue manager for the Hit Me Up loft space in New York City. She has been helping throw play parties with Hit Me Up and other groups in NYC pretty much every weekend for the past 3 years. Her background is in marine biology so frankly she's just as confused as you are as to how she ended up in this position.
Panel Discussion Facilitated by Nikita
If you have any questions, please reach out to Nikita (she/her) #7324 on discord

A Night with Sonic: An Intimate Show Part II
A Night with Sonic: An Intimate Show
Sonic invites you to share an intimate evening with her and the Star Players as they serenade you with a stripped back acoustic set. Incorporating some fan favorites and previewing some never heard live renditions of newly released records and maybe even some unreleased material! The night will be vulnerable, raw and immersive. Sonic hopes to create a safe space to be received where she can share her truth, her healing and her journey back to self and the stage after all of these years.
Sounds curated before and after Sonic's set by DJ Brown Jewel so come ready to grab a libation and catch a vibe!
Sonic will be displaying her unique handmade body adornment inspired by Mother Earth herself, Elements by Sonic! So come ready to shop one of a kind designs if you feel ever so inclined. (Limited edition merch will also be available)
Cocktails & non - alcoholic bevarages will be available for purchase at the bar.
*NO ONE TURNED AWAY FOR LACK OF FUNDS (Please personally reach out to Sonic or management so we can be sure you're taken care of)

Lloyd the DJ
Come see our resident DJ manager bring the house down on the 1s and 2s. Lloyd the DJ is known for jams that highlight dancehall, reggae, soca, hip - hop and pop.

DJ MaryMac5Star
Legendary DJ, Mary Mac 5Star, best known for being Madonna's DJ, graces Madame X every 2nd and 4th Friday of each month. Come see us for X Fridays to be a part of the immaculate vibes and deep grooves.

DJ LIVENDIRECT
In the booth until 3:00am
Come witness the untouchable DJ duo LIVENDIRECT spin the night away in our DJ booth. Composed of DJs @itsmezmure and @keithturnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr you don’t want to miss this unparalleled energy on a Saturday night.

DJ L Trendz
Groovin’ until 3:00am
DJ L Trendz is beloved at Madame X and legendary in the NYC DJ scene. He’s been with us forever and when he’s spinning you won’t want to leave. Known for his fusion of hip - hop, soul, r & b, latin, and original beats, DJ L Trendz is not to miss.

Electric Moon: Intimacy
Enter a world of shadows, desire, and decadence. Electric Moon: Intimacy is an immersive burlesque experience that delves into the darker corners of fantasy and fascination. Beneath the seductive allure lies a realm where the forbidden comes to life, and every movement is laced with mystery, power, and a touch of danger.
Each performer embraces the darker side of desire, weaving stories that blur the line between temptation and terror, pleasure and pain. With sensuality that lingers and acts that captivate, Electric Moon: Intimacy is not just a performance—it's an intoxicating journey into the unknown.
Prepare to be spellbound as we invite you to embrace your own dark desires in a show where nothing is quite as it seems, and every glance hides a secret.
Hosted by:
CKAY
Celestial Vixens:
Amber Lyonness
Dani de Leche
Haze L. Nutt
Nirah
Priya Roy
Solo performances by:
Messica Rabbit
Tickets: $25 in advanced
$30 at the door
*bring cash tips for our performers!*
Dress code: sexy, dark and glamorous